Mugabi Life Ministries

This is where I talk about how society norms of a man increased my depression and almost my suicide. I don't hide anything on my blog, I guess this is a place I get to share deep messages with the world, and am okay with whatever you might say or do after reading it. All my messages are real human experiences embedded with wonderful lessons I wish I learned earlier or wish other humans learnt too. Growing up, I wasn't so close to dad or my bigger brother , my brother was in highschool at the time and when he came home he wasn't so available , he liked hanging out with his friends. Dad and I grew apart during a silent fight,that eventually destroyed the connection I had with him anyway that's a story for another post, what I want to talk about is the poison I drank during one of the darkest  times in my life. I was rejected by a girl, I adored and it hurt like hell,so I shut the fuck up and try to learn how to be a man.So that's exactly what I did , tried

Do you know how it feels to be Rejected by the thing you have desired for a long time? That time could hours, minutes maybe days , months or even Years. I don't know the Severity of your situation but I'm pretty sure it is Tough and it has greatly affected your smile, but what if I told you this Rejection could Actually be helpful to you...let that sink in...rejection being of service to you. I have experienced Rejections a lot, I took them very personally but now that am older and I have learnt the reframe I'm about to teach you, You might also be able to find peace within this Rejection. I also feel bad when I get Rejected, I occasionally curse myself out so we aren't striving to be perfect , we are striving to be the Best humans we can be while we are still alive, your Best could look perfect to others because that's where the word perfect comes from *out there* . It is what is out there that makes us beat ourselves up for not being that or this, neve