Post one : Accept yourself

 

Hello Guys

Its Timothy

=( I couldn’t fulfill the article Like I promised because I went with my aunt yesterday

But today you get Your first ever Post coming straight out of the oven at 4 am(I will continue later in the morning I'm tired AF !)

 I also began reading THINK LIKE A MONK by Jay Shetty…It’s a really good book about adopting a Monk mindset(One filled with abundance and in the Present Moment) and dropping what he calls the Monkey Mind—which rushes all through the day ..one thought to another basically our everyday behavior….I will be letting You in On How far I have gone

  Today’s Post is Basically About discovering  the fact that we have shit living in our heads

And its really Taking a Hold of us and we better act on it to get a better life

I wanna say this

The Process of getting rid of this shit will not be easy

Barely anyone self improves the Right way

So You might feel Alone in the Process ….But its not true Many people around the world are trying so hard to improve

Some people  actually most People are so comfortable at where they are

They feel they have eaten the Universe’s fruits yet they are enjoying its shade

Don’t Give Up

Be ready for the tree to ripen so that you can get its fruits

You will eat so much You might wanna puke 😉

So don’t expect many people ready to cheer You On

Your Friends will get Boring

They will Say some things to Bug You

But always remember that at the end of the day

You are the Writer of your Own story

The Artist of Your Own Manga

And Fucker of Your day for the Most Part

So a Buddy ☹ who doesn’t support You or at least wish you the best while you getting rid of this shit is not required in the New Life up ahead

Good Friends are there to Support You…Challenge You to Level Up….and 😊Love You when you forget Yourself

Not just have Fun with you =) and You should be doing what Good Friends do 😉 too

Don’t expect to get Good friends Yet you  are a  bad Friend

Be the Kind of friend You would Love to have

  Define what a Good friend Looks like to you so You can be able to spot one when you meet one(BELIEVE IT !!)

The Subconscious Mind is our True identity (who we think are) all sorts of Beliefs are here and they are the ones that build our Paradigm(The Perception that we use to solve our problems)

It runs the show while the Conscious mind Draws the Curtain

The Conscious Mind is where our thoughts take place ..where we remember stuff… Learn and memorize stuff….its where our senses operate(Sight, smell , hearing , feeling and taste ) Basically it’s the Input device of our Lives

It gets in and gets  processed in the Subconscious which checks at Razor speed looks  for a solution to an immediate problem or a response to a certain stimulus .All the responses to the Things out there actually come from the Subconscious…

 

Get Ready to really dive deep into Your mind

The crappy shit you think about is of a result of some fucking negative belief

Most Likely planted in your Mind during childhood …You probably got sad , didn’t know how to solve it , didn’t know to how to communicate the pain to Your Parents

And now it has grown into a Belief that doesn’t even have to be “True”

It just has to be there to WORK

These Beliefs get implanted without our control

We couldn’t help it and shouldn’t blame ourselves or anyone for it

But now since we are Older

We can actually replace these Beliefs that don’t work for us with new Beliefs [The ones that are effective and Empowering]

Please Keep this at the Back of Your Mind

YOU CANT LIE TO YOUR SUBCONCIOUS FOREVER

 Trust me I have done it countless times …It will accept the Lie but overtime will Reject it

It will Fade away or You will feel bad Inside But  Good Outside(Which doesn’t feel so Good)

We need to Prove to Ourselves that we are -THESE- new “Things”

Your Subconscious doesn’t want to change but it can follow Instructions…

Don’t just tell it to give you the life You want

That’s why affirmations don’t work so well its because it enters and is rejected as it is dimmed as a false belief …The Subconscious is like a young child  who  will never Give up its Candy to get new  better Ones even if they look better

So try to approach it from that Point of View….It Loves these Candy and Thinks they are the Best Candy even though the Person giving him the candy knows the one he holds is sweeter and bigger than the child holds…It makes No sense , right ?

As in Get this $100 candy and drop that $10 candy

If you have tried convincing a child that something is better than what he has ….then you can see what is ahead of you ….

Prove to it that You already have that life

Let it see that You are actually CONFIDENT

Show it that the Candy You are holding is better

It will slowly by slowly drop the old candy and take yours

But if You just force it ……Try to shove it into his Mouth …He will Push further away(I would say its basically denying the fact that we have shit in our heads …saying You are perfect yet You feel Bad )

“Never Lie to Yourself for YourSelf knows You better than You know Yourself”—Timothy Tugume

So get the Candy from the shop and try and show this Guy that the Candy is good

And You will see …He will never let go of it

You took your life creating the life you have

Don’t expect to create your new life in a day

It will Take Time………………………”ROME WASN’T BUILT IN A DAY”

I am still on a Journey to get a New Life 😊 About 2 years now Though

To erase the old one

In fact I’m learning a lot from it and myself and I’m teaching people based on the experience I have obtained from challenging my Old Life and self-limiting beliefs which are a Bunch of lies which got made up on their own without much of my control

The People …The Money ….The Anything You want already exists ..You just need to Level up to get  that or open your eyes to see that

I personally can say this …You might think LOVE is too Far …But its just close by soo Close that you cant see it all You have to do is settle and Lower your Gaze and You will see that There has been Love just waiting to be Noticed by You..(Moving On is a Large Concept and deserves more Articles)

But first You must identify all the Shit Living in Your Mind and try to see where it has been made from

Why  it is there..(Most times negative Beliefs are present to protect us from stuff like destroying relationships could be a defense mechanism set up by your subconscious to protect You from emotional Pain)

Get a Diary or Piece of Paper …Where You can write down as much as shit as You can

For example when You get sad for some reason or other

Intensify it In your mind so you can get the message from the Subconscious(it speaks through  either emotion or images) not just half of it[This powerful practice is just about a quarter of what You need to do! You will find a lot of shit lying in your Subconscious]

Pour as much Negative Energy until You cant anymore

Write down how shitty You feel

How hopeless You feel

And Go on and On

And You shouldn’t try to look like “STRONG”

Its okay to have Hope in your writing but if you act strong You wont be able to see your weakness and its roots which is what we are aiming at

If You are Super Honest, You will spot the roots of the Pain …see the wounds that need Healing and now with that Information

You Can formulate steps to get rid of these Negative Emotions and Patterns in Your Life

You will satisfy the Subconscious Mind

You will answer its burning worries

You will  show it that’s alright

Overtime feeling weak internally will almost feel Impossible to You

So that’s Day 1

Get the shit on the Table

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We shall do it together

Try to get the shit Out

And Put in Glitter

Gold , Diamond and Good Vibes Only

Wish You Luck on Your Journey to create Your New Life

😊By Timothy